Sexual role-playing with a partner never really appealed to me. I had always pictured dumb ‘you be the saucy nurse, I’ll be the naughty doctor’ scenarios, which really didn’t do anything for me.
However, about a year ago, my wife and I started talking to each other during sex about people who turned us on, and it’s been by far the most exciting addition to our sex life in years. I remember the day it started. I had errands to run on a weekend day, and she wanted to take a dance class. I dropped her at the class, and came back an hour later to retrieve her. I walked into the lobby to find her chatting with the women from the freshly completed class. This is hippy-style dance — no Jane Fonda stuff here — so there were many curvy girls in leotard tops and yoga pants. They glistened with sweat, had rosy, flushed cheeks, and were still breathing hard from the exertion of class. I had never met them before, so I walked around the lobby, shaking sweaty, soft hands, locking eyes, smiling and flirting, drinking in the details of each woman.
On the drive home, she told me how proud she was to introduce me to her classmates, and how they had said in the past they wanted to meet me. I told her she was a lucky girl to be able to spend an hour flowing and moving with all those different bodies. Dance has always made her feel grounded in her body, and she was feeling proud of me, so as soon as we arrived home, she pulled me down on the bed. Eager to reciprocate — and glowing with secret memories of the roomful of panting, soft women — I tore off our clothes and was soon making slow, luscious love to her.
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